l.o.v.3

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim..

Who is not in need of love?
Who is not in like of having someone to bermanja2?

"Love" in a very general context.

It could be in our family, among friends and the most ultimate should be the love towards Allah SWT and His Prophet SAW.

Tapi cara meng-expresskan itu, masing-masing punya cara berbeza.
Ada yang senang melalui perbuatan, boleh bermanja-manja sana sini.
Ada yang senang meluahkan melalui perkataan, ucapan "I love you" or "uhubbukifillah" mudah dikeluarkan
Ada yang lebih mudah melalui tulisan, lebih mudah diberitahu melalui FB, surat etc

dan ada lagi cara-cara lain..

Namun, ketahuilah, cara masing-masing sungguh berbeza..

Terdapat beberapa hadis yang encourage kita untuk memberitahu sahabat tersebut bila kita sayangkan mereka..

Abu Hurairah (RA) reported: The Prophet (SAW) said, "A man set out to visit a brother (in Faith) in another town and Allah sent an angel on his way. When the man met the angel, the latter asked him, "Where do you intend to go?'' He said, "I intend to visit my brother in this town". The angel said, "Have you done any favour to him?'' He said, "No, I have no desire except to visit him because I love him for the sake of Allah, the Exalted, and Glorious.'' Thereupon the angel said, "I am a messenger to you from Allah (to inform you) that Allah loves you as you love him (for His sake)". [Muslim]

“If a man loves his brother in faith, he should tell him that he loves him.”[Abu Dawud]
Anas bin Malik (RA) reported: A man was with the Prophet (SAW) when another man passed by and the former said: "O Messenger of Allah! I love this man (for Allah's sake)". Messenger of Allah (SAW) asked, "Have you informed him?'' He said, "No". Messenger of Allah (SAW) then said, "Tell him (that you love him)". So he went up to the man and said to him, "I love you for the sake of Allah;'' and the other replied, "May Allah, for Whose sake you love me, love you.'' [Abu Dawud]

OK. Ada terasa jealous jugak, bila ada orang senang sekali mengatakan dia sayang sahabatnya.. Setakat kata-kata di status FB, dalam surat, text messaging, mungkin boleh. Tapi depan-depan? Mau tergagap, ye dok? hehe.

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So, tak boleh nak cakap depan-depan, tak boleh nak tunjuk dengan perbuatan, tak boleh nak tulis ayat sweet-sweet, the least we can do is to make du'a for them. InshaAllah :)
Sahabat yang sayangkan sahabatnya, pasti nakkan kebaikan untuk sahabatnya itu. Kan?
Tapi disebabkan adanya hadith2 diatas, perlu juga usaha untuk bagitau.

How?
Tundukkan rasa ego dalam diri.. T.T